A
recent survey conducted by Gallup concluded that Singaporeans ranks as the most
emotionless society in the world. Participants were asked whether
they experienced five positive and five negative emotions a lot during the
course of a day.
Graphic: Bloomberg Newsweek, Source: Gallup |
The 36% in Singapore who reported feeling anything is the lowest in the world. Ask any Singaporean on the streets and i would guess few would find it surprising. Below is a list of common Singaporean traits which you can probably relate to:
- We do not bother to speak to
unfamiliar people we meet in lifts (Same office building/HDB)
- We do not know who our neighbours
are and what they do for a living
- We are unaware and uninterested of
the problems our co-workers are facing at work
- Many of us do not even bother to sit
on priority seats on public transport for fear of social
obligations
- When we attend concerts or
ceremonies, we do not even applaud as loud as we should
- We are often unappreciative of
things people go out of the way to do for us.
- We are less expressive when it comes
to displaying our emotions of love & gratitude
(Ironically we are very
expressive when it comes to complaining anonymously online)
- The list goes on....
This lack of social expression and cohesion
is often attributed to our lightning paced lifestyle where people constantly
struggle to fulfill their career, family, financial demands. In fact,
Singaporeans have grown so accustomed to it that when we see a 70 year old
hatchback toilet cleaner at MRT stations, doing physically demeaning tasks, we do
not even twitch an eyebrow. Our hearts have hardened to such an extent.
Source: Economist Intelligence Unit |
This is in direct contrast to a "
where to be born in 2013 index" where Singapore ranked 6 overall for
newborns to have opportunities to enjoy a safe, healthy and prosperous life. So the question is: Is
it really such a good idea to pop babies in Singapore to endure 18 years of
vigorous education and grow up to be working adults who just couldn't care
less?
So how did we collectively reach this stage where despite
our economic success, we rank low in basically everything that "makes life worth
living" ? Where we become rich in material possessions but poor in our
social connections with our fellow countryman? From a financial perspective,
there are many driving forces which led to this " emotionless" state
within Singaporeans. Many prominent economists and social
psychologists have discovered that many indicators that measure social well
being e.g. how happy a child is, the level of trust within a community, level
of social mobility has a strong correlation with the extent of income
inequality within a country.
Source: Ted 2011. Richard Wilkinson: How economic inequality harms societies |
Recent studies have shown that the top 20% in our society is
10 times richer than our bottom 20%. (This is twice the inequality of other
developed nations like Japan, Finland & Norway). The large contrast between
our rich and poor and our constant need for social validity has been pulling us
further and further apart. It seems like in Singapore, one really have to get
rich, or die trying just to make ends meet. It would be interesting
to observe how "emotionless" Singaporeans can evolve in years to come
as the trend seems set to continue. At the meantime, perhaps we could show
more emotions by enjoying a good laugh, at least at ourselves.
Do read my other articles:
The Sandwich Generation in Singapore
CPF system & its application of Behavioural Economics
Another failed campaign? |
Do read my other articles:
The Sandwich Generation in Singapore
CPF system & its application of Behavioural Economics